On line dating first phone call
No longer do we see tabloid headlines screaming ‘meet the couple who found love ON THE INTERNET!
’ For Britain’s 16 million singles, looking for love online is the norm.
The sooner you can assess whether those online sparks translate into real-life chemistry, the better.
Because it just isn’t a real relationship until you’re sat opposite each other, drinking lattes.
The fact is – you’re unlikely to meet a con artist or lunatic.
But in all likelihood, you’re probably going to have a drink with someone who just doesn’t do it for you. I recall a friend excitedly going off for a first date with a chap - ‘I just have a good feeling about this one, he’s an academic you know’ - only to discover he was a librarian who spent the entire meal talking about dust jackets.
It’s Just Lunch offers clients a chance to get acquainted over lunch.
Baldly, without meeting someone, there’s only so much information you can glean about them – knowing someone’s taste in films, music, food does not a personality make. There’s a danger of idealising them and imagining your future together before you’ve exchanged a single smile.In short, if we take you on as a client, we guarantee you will go out on dates!But it’s a thorny issue - and one that must be tackled, as more and more of us turn to the online dating.Put simply, how soon you meet will have a direct effect on your chemistry. You could be consigning yourself to a disappointing date.Thankfully, the window isn’t too terrifying (no one is saying that you have to slurp coffee in the first 24 hours).